My wife filed for divorce after 15 years of marriage 20 years together and she reminded why she did itit, I was bad and didn't realize it she reminded me of all the things that I said to her that were crushing her and I didn't care.now I do.and it might be too late, now she played apart in it too the nagging chasing me around the house and the nonstop phone calls when I was out with my friends when I did go out with them which was not often, but when we had arguments and fights I would at some of the most terrible things to her that she reminds me of and it did a number on her, now she says she wants to be happy and if she stays withe that won't happen i love my wife and family more than anything and to see the past 20 years go away as if they meant nothing is devastating how do I get her back and let her know that this time iam getting the help and not to give up on our marriage that it will get better and the good times will come back because I think she is only focused on what wentry bad and remind her of why we both said i do through sickness and in health till death do us part like what every couple says on the alter. I miss my soulmate
I would say that you can try your best and show her you have changed, but after 20 years, I think that change may be a little too late. Sorry!
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