my wife finally admitted to her affair last night. she didn't shed a single tear. I have accused her for a year now. I really didn't think it would be so painful to hear it, from her own mouth. I cant get my head out of the clouds today. for the first time in my life, I don't know what to do next.
I'm so sorry for your pain. Just know you are in the right place. They say not to make any major decisions for at least 6 months.
Breathe! Just breathe! Take some you time!
It is hard to deal with your spouse affair. What is worst is when they leave you for them and want a divorce. Making life with them seem better then with you. You have a long road ahead of you and will take time, lots of time.