JUST GOT A CALL FROM MY SISTER...THEY HAVE TAKEN MY GRANDFATHER TO THE HOSP. HE IS UN-RESPONSIVE...MY FAMILY NEEDS PRAYER FOR THIS VERY URGENT AND TRING TIME....I NEED IT, I DON'T WANT TO HAVE A SEIZURE DUE TO THE STRESS OF SEEING MY GRANDFATHER PASS AWAY, ALTHOUGH I KNOW IT IS A POSSIBILITY DUE TO THE FACT HE HAS PROSTATE CANCER AND ALZHIMERS PROBABLIY DIDNT SPELL THAT RIGHT, ANYWAY....I AM ALREADY STRESSING JUST GETTING READY TO GO TO THE HOSP. BUT I REALLY HOPE I MAKE IT BEFORE HE GOES.. IT'S AN HOURS DRIVE......THANKS EVERYONE FOR EVERYTHING!!
BLUEEYES
BlueEyes, you and your grandfather are in my thoughts and prayers. I know how upsetting this is, but please try to take good care of yourself. If you can, do deep breathing exercises and pray. I know that you will make it through this. I am here for you.
He has stablilized thanks for all the prayers....
blueeyes
That is such fantastic news! How are you doing and how are you feeling?
dear blue eyes just got your post, praying for you to stablize as well and keeping you and your grandfather in my thoughts and prayers with faith and hope in his wellness and yours, your humble prayer warrior with all my best.
it has been a long very tiring night i am so exhausted finally home for a while going to lay down for a few hours before going back to the hosp. he is still in critical condition stable right now but his bp is still low and they are having to raise his sodium levels very slowly....THANKS EVERYONE FOR THE PRAYERS THEY MEAN SO VERY MUCH TO ME (TEARS) YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH IT BLESSES MY HEART TO KNOW I HAVE FRIENDS OUT THERE ALL OVER PRAYING FOR US.........GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!!!!!!!!!! NITE NITE
BLUEEYES
BlueEyes, of course we are here for you and holding your hand through this. I am praying for you and your grandfather. I am so happy that you are home now and taking care of your own health and well-being, which is so important. Please let us know how things continue to progress. Sending you big hugs.
IT JUST DOESN'T END!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I JUST CAN'T HANDLE ANYMORE.... I'M SO DONE
My dear blueeyes,
It is difficult to see our grandparents in pain and ourselves feel powerless. Honey you are not alone right now. You feel alone, but you really are not. Do you know that many people pray each day, asking Heavenly Father to bless those in need? You have been thought of and prayed for today by strangers who believe in the healing of prayers.
After i read your posts over the past few days, i feel concern that you have a lot of , what I call, drama, going on inyour life. Your grandpa I am sure has great love and pride for you.
You know you can rest tonight and you can talk to your very own support group on this website.
I can see from your posts that you are a determined woman, and i know you have the strenght to make it over the next few days.
your sweet green pepper
I HAVEN'T SLEPT MUCH I TALKED WITH MY BABY GIRL LASTNIGHT...I'M NOT HAPPY WITH WHAT SHE HAD TO TELL ME!!!! I'M ANGRY AND SO UPSET RIGHT NOW.........................ASH IS 18 YEARS OLD AND JUST GRADUATING HIGHSCHOOL, HE SO CALLED FIANCE WHICH I CAN;T STAND HAS GOTTEN HIS GED AND HASN'T DONE ANYTHING ELSE WITH HIS LIFE BUT BECOME A GAMER HAS NOW GOTTEN HER PREGNANT............OMG NOW WHAT??? SHE TAKES HER EXIT EXAMS NEXT WEEK AND HE HAS NO FUTURE, AND THEIR GOING TO BE PARENTS????
SHE IS JUST A BABY HERSELF...SHE WANTS TO BE A PHYSICAL THERAPIST NOW SHE HAS TO PUT THAT ON HOLD...I KNOW WHAT WILL HAPPEN SHE WILL BECOME A MOM, WIFE AND HOMEMAKER NOT THAT THERES ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT....BUT SHE WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO PERSUE HER DREAMS.........I HAVE CRIED ALL NIGHT AND I HAVE NO PEACE
I WANT TO JUST SMACK HIM, IF THEY WERE GOING TO BE SEXUALLY ACTIVE THEN WHY COULDN'T THEY USE PROTECTION???? WHAT IS WRONG WITH THESE KIDS DO THEY JUST NOT THINK???
i'M SO ANGRY INSIDE FULL OF RAGE AND DISCONTENT FOR HIM....WISH I COULD JUST TAKE HER SOME PLACE AWAY FROM HIM!!! HE HAS HIT HER BEFORE AND I AM AFFRAID HE WILL DO IT AGAIN AND MAYBE THE BABY TOO...DEAR LORD WHAT ELSE....I CAN'T TAKE MUCH MORE
SO SO SORRY JUST NEEDED TO VENT I GUESS....I JUST FEEL SO LOST
B;UEEYES
Oh BlueEyes, I am so very sorry for how you are feeling about your daughter's news of her pregnancy last night. I can completely understand why you are so upset, most especially because of her fiance and his past behavior. Has he improved with his behavior since he hit her? That is of course absolutely unacceptable behavior, though if he has taken steps to improve himself, then do you think that they have potential for a beautiful future together?
And, I very much understand your frustration over your daughter having to put her career on hold, though do you think that there will be a possibility for her to continue with her education once her baby is born? She doesn't have to give up on her dreams.
Please know that I am here for you, I am praying for you, your grandfather, and your daughter. I know that everything will fall into place.
blueeyes you are in our thoughts and prayers!
Sweet blue eyes
You have a lot going on at once! I do hope your grandpa is not feeling pain while he is getting better. I know you must have good memories of things you did together! You and your family remain in my prayers.
From my old age i know that if a person wants to do something they will usually find a way. I think if your daughter wants to be a physical therapist she will at some point in her life. Or she will find the other things she wants to do. We live to be well over 80 nowdays and so we can have a family and two or more different careers or jobs.
Perhaps having a baby so young seems to be bad timimg, but this daughter of yours has a family who apparently loves her. She has a support system which is good. And in a few months you will be holding a little baby who looks up into your eyes while eating just as your daughter did when she was an infant.
I feel concern that this fellow hits her, but as a reader i have limited information. Like you i don't want anyone hitting my kid if they are little or adults.
Now is the time to empower your daughter. Use a permanent marker and write the phone number down of the nearest domestic violence shelter, so if she wants to leave she has that information. Write the numbers small, and do not write where the phone is for, just let him assume it is an emergecny number for the car insurance. This is a national trend, to write that number down in a safe place, so our kids can have choices. My daughters, my clients all have done this.
Please think of ways to tell your daughter you love her no matter what, she needs to know you value her even if her male friend doesn't.
best wishes, i know for certain you can encourage your daughter and let her know she is of more value than sliced bread!
greenpepper
dear BlueEyes, dear one,i am so sorry but please do not give up on your daughter nor put on her future limits that may not be there for her. she may very well have a future as a physical therapist and do not let her give up on it either. as for the father of her child i agree with puppydoglvr, they are young yet, time will tell, maybe they will have a bright future ahead, but it is important to keep a watchful eye over her on this matter that's for sure. offer her as many resources as possible with other women and organizations that will be supportive of her besides yourself as you can only do so much. we all will pray for your daughter and you as well as your grandfather as she takes on this very adult responsibility and God bless her and you. i have hope and faith in your decisions over the next few months as you face this stressful time. all my best, your humble prayer warrior.
Sending prayers your way!!
BlueEyes, how are you doing and feeling today? I hope you are doing a lot better. Please know that I am here for you.
dear blueeyes, just stopping by to let you know that you are in my prayers. all my best with fath and hope, your prayer warrior friend,
got news today...her ultrasound was good...thank the Lord....the baby seems to be ok, the heartbeat is strong, but they want be able to tell if her having surgery while pregnant done any damage until the forth month.......she is 8 weeks and due dec. 28th which oddly is my oldest daughters birthday....
ash seems to be very happy about this baby, and about marring ben, I just hope it doesn't turn out to be a nightmare for her........
i am tring to be possitive and i so want to be happy to be becoming a nana for the first time but i just wish it was with someone else...maybe this will cause him to grow up..........
had a seizure lastnight, just too much stress, so tired, going to go lay down
thanks everyone for praying God knows how thankful I truely am
blueeyes
Hi BlueEyes, thank you so much for the update. I am so happy that things are progressing a bit more positively for you. I know that this is a difficult situation, but your daughter needs you now more than ever before, and I know that you are there for her through and through. Try to focus on the positive; a beautiful new addition to your family and being a nana for the first time. This may hep subside your stress a bit. I will be praying for her and praying that everything goes smoothly and happily.
How are you doing and feeling today? I am so sorry that you had a seizure, I can imagine what the stress is doing to you. Please take good care of yourself and let me know how you are doing. I am here for you.
Thank you, I really need it right now...I was attacked lastnight while sitting on my back deck by an unknown man, he grabbed me by the throat and I jumped up knocking him away and ran inside telling my fiance he ran through the woods and hid somewhere...we called the law but they did NOTHING!!!..........now I have this huge bruised place on my neck and I'm scared to go outside(tears) whatelse is going to happen???? I am so frustrated and confused it seems like everything is going wrong I don't get it?
blueeyes