Needing help-I've been to the doctor today and been told I most probably have herpes the test results will come back next week but it's almost deffinate I have it, I'm only 18 years old, female, and about to finish college in England and complete my performing arts course, I haven't been to college today and won't tomorrow as I am feeling too depressed, I've told my mum and my dad and sister what's wrong because I can't deal with it on my own, my confidence was so high no one could bring me down I always felt confident in myself in how I looked and how I was as a person, now I couldn't feel more unattacrtive and less of a person, I feel everyone is winning in life bar me, I know my life is going to completely change now, and as a person I feel I've completely changed now. I don't know how to deal with this I honestly don't.
You're not alone, I'm only 22 and from England as well and i found out about it a year ago. I completely feel like my social and love life is over. I have a pretty long story if you want to hear it, but just know that there are so many other people out there going what you're going through, try and find solace in that.
@mdrnbsbl thank you means a lot, good to know there’s other young people too
It will be okay! I promise. I'm glad you told your family because support is a big deal. Have they been supportive? Get informed, the more you know about this, the better you will understand it. Also, don't fret. You may not have it.
@CaliSunflower yes very! My dad I haven’t spoken to, too much about it but I’m hoping he won’t be off with me, that’s true stay hopeful but prepare for the worst
Hugs for you girl... I'm going to the doctor tomorrow to see what the bumps are down there. Stay strong dear and I'm right here with you! @mdrnbsbl I would like to hear your story!
@hopelesswanderer thank you! I’ll have my fingers crossed for you
You are the same person. It is a skin condition that has been endemic in the human population for 1000s of years. It is very scary to be where you are just learning this, thinking it changes you as a person. You just as attractive and can be as confident or more. You need a little time to take care of yourself.
@BAQ I was just diagnosed today by the OBGYN. He took a swab but he was sure that's what it was. Strangely enough, I feel pretty okay. I think I've already mentally prepared myself. I'm only a 20 year old female as well. I supported you if you would like to send me a message later on!