I have been in a relationship that is everywhere, I but im trying to find out if being called a lier and a cheater by my other along with being told that i dont care about them nore our child, because they are told that I am doing these things, is verbal, mental abuse or something like that, and because I make no contact with anyone for over a year, because I got rid of some of them then told to just quit talking to the rest cause there worthless, i have children with two other exes and I cant be around them at all, i have had a friend i had done something with once and where still friends after wards for years i cannot talk to now, if i do im cheating or even if im around them regaurdless i am a cheater and a lier to my S.O. please help im feel like im gettint ripped apart i have been through before but i need some emotional help i guess and some clarity. i can even make some posts of msgs sent.
Hi, Not sure if I understand everything that is going on, but it sure sounds like you are being abused. It also sounds like there is a lot going on in your life right now. Would you explain some more? I would like to listen and hope to help if I can.
Momof2
I got in a relationship hoping for a chang but after a month my phone broke then i had to use my S.O. phone to see the children i have with an ex, then after i went to work my ex started talking stuff on who i used to be to the person im with then a massive change happened I couldnt hang out with my friends i had after work then I had a friend i had a couple friend i messed around with years before one went away and the other turned into my best friend and cause they where the oppossite sex I no longer had a best friend to talk to cause i was told it was wierd for me to have a bunch of friends of the opposing sex, well its wat i was around growing up a parent was gone all the time and and i had one around a younger sibling that where around, i feel for comfertable around the oppisite sex any way I dont have any of them for friends any more and one day cause my ex i came home expecting a suprise and ended up striped down and had a table leg held over my head being told"If i find out your cheating on me i beat the F*** out of you with this" then my S.O. always called my work to make sure i didnt go out to eat, if i did i was told that i was cheating when i went to lunch,I wasnt allowed to go to my mothers store cause someone told my exs go up there, then I lost my job thanks to u know who, or was a reason of it, I then wasnt alowed outside to smoke unless they where standing there, i had to go to bed when they said so, then then i was getting told i was sleeping with the neighbors, and if i got upset and wanted to go around the block and cool off i couldnt but they left when they wanted to, i was told i had to follow there rules or i had to get my stuff and get out, i wrecked the car cause was cheating, i was told to look at the ground when i went out, at one time i wasnt to work unless there was noone of the opposite sex there or if the was no interation with customers once i got told we where over cuase i talked to the O.S. and told the truth but i was tryn to make a sale for my mom so by this time im starting to get edgy and starting to boil over the cell phone of theres i couldnt use and they hid it when they whent to bed, then the phone got shut off i was then acussed of talking and txting on it, then the new phone came i was told i was looking at porn on it, then it got a password out on it so i couldnt use it, then that phone lost service i again got blamed of talking to the O.S. on a non working device, by now im starting to take anger out on objects and breaking them, then started getting called skitzo cuase im taking anger out on things.... and that not the least of it