I'm not sure if I get it, I know none of my "friends" do..... and how I am supposed to deal?
I was in a near death car accident driving home from Maine (lobster Fest) and got T-boned by a man going 40+ in a 20mph zone....he ran a red light and wasnt checked for DUI? Anyway, in litigation but still dealing with not sleeping, pain, and PTSD....ANY and ALL advice is appreciated...thank you.
Thanks Dare....You went through some "stuff". I will also remember not to mention ANY of my previous accidents or abuse...to the Dr. or the Lawyer!
What I want to know was where were my "friends" I had two friends help me during this time and that was minimal. And my church made me the most upset. I couldn't walk or sit etc...but I went to church...I guess someone had gone up to the Senior Pastor's wife (who never said anything to me after the accident, call, nadda....small church your either "in" or "not"...guess i'm NOT), this person asked the SP wife if the congregation could pray over me. Usually those who are going through major trauma go up front and recieve paryer/healing hands etc.....well she told this person just to grab a few pwople and pray for me? What? But they got my tithe every month....hmmm. I have not gone to church this entire month. I think they figured I was upright and I was fine....Other than me, and my boyfriend the only other people who cared was my mother....she thought she was losing me and how close I came to being gone....anyway, one day at a time...I will deal....
Peace...
My pain level is back to the way it was relatively right after the accident....except I can actually walk...it just sucks being in pain 24/7 and nobosy cares or will help or do anything about it...nice! well at least I have this support group;-)...
Blessings to you Dare.
ps dr. apt jan 13th last one.with the ortho...woohoo...sux anyway.
I can relate my accident was caused by my boyfriend who was driving...he died on the scene... I wasn't as lucky...