I'm stuck in this living heck called limbo it's been over a week since court and still we have no ruling from the judge. What could be taking so long? I am on barrow time I did find out that my house is going to be auctioned on July 5th so I have till then.
I got a call from a group who is considering doing a cash for keys giving us small token payment that I do not know if I would have to split with my ex but am prepared to if it can get me out of here
OH **** it!! I literally just thought of you and looked at the clock to see if there was time yet for a ruling!!! Gosh the waiting is like torture when you are talking about the wellbeing of your children!! GRRRRRRR!
I'm really sorry this is taking so long! Did you call the courts today? Do you remember if they said how you would be notified? I've been notified by mail before but most of the time, my attorneys have been contacted.
I'm glad you have some time before your home will be auctioned. I don't understand what the cash for keys thing is??
Sending hugs, Suzee
Ok No I haven't called the judge said he would notify our lawyers by email since my attorney and ex are out of town so I have been waiting on a call from my lawyer or an email from her.
The cash for keys is a small cash payment for my house on top of what it cost them to stop the forecloser and pay off the mortgage this is cash they pay me to move out without evicting me I would have to get my ex to sign off on it and give him half of the money I am paid to buy him off but I have an amount in mind that would do it.
hugs Teddy
teddy
what i have learned through all of this is that court is very S-L-O-W....there are so many other cases the courts are backed up . How sad is that why is there so much of this crap going on ..its very sad!
I too know the suspense in waiting and all the stress it brings.. hang in there hun ..maybe you could hang a dart board up with your ex's picture on it and shoot some darts:)
to pass the time.
Love and Hugs
AG♥
OOHHHHH I LIKE the dartboard idea... I know I have one of those **** things around here somewhere!!!!!!! Miss AG, YOU ROCK!!!
Teddy, are we lucky gals to have AG with us!!
Teddy, I'm so sorry about you still having to wait. I do know how you feel though as I wait to see if my **** fights the HRO and of course am anxious about tomorrows outcome. I think we are going to end up in court next week again. Am always waiting to see what's going to happen next, praying for justice and then have everything move at a snails pace.
Love and hugs, Suzee
I would so love too unfortunately I can't my son might see it and then say I was saying or doing something bad to his father I am so trying not to think or feel bad thoughts about him but then I think is he having to ask for assistance or beg people for help or even go to a abused and battered women's group for help Heck no he never would anything that could taint him was left to me to do
He's driving all over doing whatever he pleases and here I am stuck and do you think he cares Heck no they never care it's always about them and what they want I'd ask for his balls but he'd have to have them first for me to take them. My son once told me I had bigger ones then his dad did not truer statement was ever made even from a child's mouth
Of course we are as lucky as we are to have you my fine first class lady!!!
I am so very thankful that as I wait in this waiting game that I am doing so with you fine ladies to coach me along you and so many others here have kicked my rear and pulled me up and wiped away my tears I find myself so very thankful that I was lead here I have hope again . You two saw me when I walked in here the first time held me as I was shaking and jerking like a freak of nature I can not thank you enough for all you have given me.
I cry just thinking of all you two have gone through and continue to deal with part of me thanks God i have not had to deal with a crazy man like you have but then I thank him that he has watched out for you two and your families and envy in how close it has made you and your family.
Suzee you know that I am with you tomorrow in spirit add a hamburger on the girl for me ok. I know if you end up in court someone is going to listen to chase it's his life he should be heard now that he's found his voice he should get to use it
I love you ladies
teddy
I pray I am able to give others what you have given me or atleast some of what you do for all of us here