My name is Cash i am a college student getting ready to gradute i have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years on and off i just found out i was diagnosed with herpes i feel ashamed and not like the woman i use to be. i told my boyfriend but he didnt say anything i fell confused and like i dont even know him anymore even though i still love him and want to marry him. I dont know what to do anymore.
Wow, Cash, I am sooo sooo sorry. I first want to tell you that you are very brave to ask for help. You already took that first step. :)
I would definitely go back to the Dr and get tested for everything! HIV for sure!
I would definitely ask your boyfriend - of 4 years - how many times he has been unfaithful?
He needs to open up and talk to you. This is serious stuff. Herpes is life long, although treatable, i imagine like any chronic condition, you will always be reminded of it.
If he doesn't open up to you and talk, I would kick him to the curb!
If he does, you need to decide how sincere he is if he is sorry.
You will need to decide if you forgive him.
Then you would need to work on trust issues with him. Counseling.
Honey, I am so sorry you are going through this. But chin up - it is treatable and you are worth more than he has given you. Don't settle - if he is not the one, then your true prince is still out there!!
Take care, thanks for posting here!!
God be with you and bless you,
jeanna
he probably gave it to you... no offense
what a way to be sympathetic xbeau....jeez