Everything just seems to fall apart. I can't take it anymore. I just want my daughter in my arms. Im sick and tired of people telling me that there is more to life. My daughter was my life. I feel like i have lost everything. Wish things would start to look up but that would be too much to ask for. Its one thing after another and i cant talk the pain anymore. How do i get thru this hurt and pain???
oh hon
i know this is hard for u but mayb its time to seek some medical help to assist u with the withdrawal symptoms u are having
i do know how hard it is to not have your baby in your arms and want it more than anything but do u want to honor her memory like this??
all the positive changes u made when u were waiting for her will be lost if u dont stop and think what are u showing her hon, come on she needs her mummy to be strong and move thru this period of time to fully acknowledge the bond that wont ever lessen but will be there thru the day to day living of triumphant times and sadness
there is more to life and u need to just do something little so that u can expand your horizons as u continue to grieve for her but dont let her or u down now by stalling and standing still
when we have talked about her in the past i had a vision of u standing proud like a lioness protecting her cub and thinking that little girl would be so proud to know u were there to take on all the demons to protect her so find that inner strength u had while waiting for her and lets see if we can help u get thru this time with tears and frustration but slowly bringing calm to both u and those around u
sending u a huge cyber cuddle hon
take care of u
love D :)
You do not need to get over it, and you do not need to find something to keep you busy. There is not more to life. You can live your life and at the same time miss her, and you will miss her everyday, forever. The pain will lessen but it will never go away and anyone that tells you to move on or get over it does not understand and does not have true compassion. I do not know your personal beliefs but, I did not believe in god or an afterlife until the moment after my daughter died that she contacted me, and from that time on, she has been speaking from heaven to mediums I hire, friends that hear, and now to me too. Her words are real, and hearing from her has given me peace. If you are open to trying to hear from your daughter I have amazing contacts you can use to communicate with her and that will truly help. If you are interested in these contacts post something here and I will post those contacts.
Hearohelp,
Thanks for commenting. I'm very sorry to hear that you also have lost a daughter. It is by far the worst thing any parent should ever have to go through. I would love to hear about the contacts. I want to be able to see my precious baby girl again. Its only been 3 month not even yet and i have people tell me all the time that i need to move on and not hurt so much, there is more to life and that im young i can have more children. Being young and possibly being able to have more children doesn't take away the pain that comes with the loss of your own child. Im just so hurt and confused and not sure what to do anymore.
Thank you for your words. It is no ones right to tell anyone how to move on, you should have more kids, etc. but really people are doing their best because they do not know any better. Some do not think before speaking some just do not get it because they have not been there. I know for a fact that staying in contact with your loved ones, after they are gone from here and in spirit does not hold them back from being where they are or doing what they are meant to do in the spirit. I have had a great deal of communications from my daughter and she in fact told me that, specifically to answer all of the people that have told me to let her go so she can move on, etc. Us here do not hold our loved ones back by talking to them, missing them, wishing they were still in body. I need to cut and past websites etc. so I will post the contact information in a second post in a moment. Everyone who wants to hear their loved ones needs to try to clear their mind, feel their loved ones in their heart and then talk to them, in their head or out loud. Feel/listen to what comes. A thought, a word or a sentence that would be something the loved one might have said, maybe their voice, something… it will take work but it will happen. You will know when it is a thought or word you had or something that was put there. Ask them to help you hear.
No one should be telling you to move on & nobody on this site is, but some are telling you to live for her as she is watching you & feeling like she cant go where she needs to go cause her mommy is crying for her & needs her so shes feeling confused as to what her mommy want her to do.....tell her its ok.....tell her to go be with god.....tell her mommy will always be with her.......
All my strengths friend.
April
Contact info for Mediums that I use and who are amazing. All work on the phone or in person,
http://thepetpsychic.com/
Laura is a pet AND people medium. Go to testimonials, I have one on her sight. My name is Kim
Rona is an amazing medium. Here is a link to send her an email. I have her private email address but I am not sure if I can give that out. If this link does not get you a response at all, post that and I will see if I can give out her private email..
http://www.merchantcircle.com/business/Psychic.Readings.by.Rona.Lafae.801-623-9639
Rebecca, the first medium I saw. She is great too.
818-892-1432 or 818-38-4487 or 818-321-5260 One of these numbers does not work, but the other two do.
For all of the people above if you call let them know that Kim, Talia's mom told you to call. They have helped me so much I want them to know I am telling people about them.
heart o help
i will be sure to mention it when i drop them a line its been almost fourty years since i saw my babies so im interested
thank u for the post
love D :)