Ok, I made a mistake but maybe i have my closure. So after

Ok, I made a mistake but maybe i have my closure.
So after my operation. I got visitors from work, friends family, everybody who cares for me.
But no phone call from my Narc. So I called him today to say , My operation went fine. He said: I'm not intressted in what your saying and He put down the phone. My first reaction was crying, calling all my friends. My second reaction is. He is finally out of my life...Or not? Two years of my life spending with him and that was his reaction? ....

You have to be like a trashman, dump all negative people(even if they are loved ones or family)/things/events out of your life, and only bring in positive people/things/events into your life.

Remember, you can love a cactus, but every time you try to hug one, you'll get hurt. This man cannot be a part of your life even if you love him, you must understand that it's a dead end road. Get someone who does love you.

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That is a typical narc. But it is an AHA moment for you. I am glad the operation went well! Feel better soon

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