Thanks to LuvsHeadMeds, I did'nt realize that if someone googles me as heatherfeathernj they can see all my posts from on here! That is so embarrassing!!!
He brought it to my attention and i am glad he did!
Thanks LuvsHeadMeds!
It was no problem. :)
You would be surprised at how many people look others up like that.
In fact many employers are doing that now, as well.
And, what is really alarming is how your user name gets pulled from this site. It will show you involved in many groups that you might never have posted something to or even joined.
For example: I looked someone up and this person appeared in the HPV and Herpes group. The issue I had was that this person had never posted anything in those groups.
Therefore, if someone were to look you up you could be guilty through some perverse/unknown association. I don't think anyone wants that sort of headache especially if that person who looked you up was a potential date. I can't even imagine how one would defend themselves if this were to be made an issue.
i hear ya!
Thanks for telling me. I don't want people reading what i write on here. what i say in this group, should stay in this group. i don't want a date thinking i'm needy and whatnot because i sought online support. you know what i mean?
That's such great information LuvsHeadMeds, thanks so much for bringing that to Heather's attention. And in turn, thanks for sharing it with us Heather. Wow! Yes, so good to keep this between us for sure, this way you can share anything and everything without worry. It's always safe with us :-)