On Saturday I went to the doctor because i noticed vaginal sores, felt like I had a little cut and was a bit uncomfortable.
The doctor said it looks likes herpes and I'll get the results this Wed. I've been with my husband 20 years and he was my first. However three years ago I started a relationship with a guy from work who is also married. We realized that although we are happily married and would never leave our spouses that the attraction was too strong. He claims that neither he or his wife have herpes and that he hasn't been with anyone other than me and his wife. I don't think my husband had been unfaithful and I'm torn waiting for my results.
Since Saturday I've been a wreck and my husband has been so supportive and caring, since I told him I have a UTI. I feel Horrible and never thought this could ever happen. If my results are positive I don't know how I'll tell my husband.
If I've been seeing this other guy on and off for the past three years and he had it, why would I only get a outbreak now?