On the fence about contacting a guy

Met a great guy at an event. My friend is pushing me to become his Facebook friend to show that I have interest, because she feels that I blew him off at the event. I am on the fence, because it is definitely outside of my comfort zone.

Wouldn't he have asked for my number if he was really interested regardless of the signals that I may have given?

I think leave it and meet him again and chat away at the next event. It's really sweet of your friend to be pushing you to be facebook friends, but in my experience facebook brings up a whole host of different issues.

Who is this facebooking him? Who's she?...bla bla bla

So keep it light, and just talk to him when you see him and roll it from there.

Love to you
Moongal x

Thanks for the great advice as always Moongal! You're the best! That's what my gut tells me, leave it and wait. But when you have someone constantly pushing you and telling you to do something and giving you all of the reasons why, then you second guess yourself.

Ya leave it, just tell her that's not really your thing and then when ye do chat and he invites you to be his friend it will be so much sweeter :) xx

I totally agree...you totally get me and we definitely speak the same language.