One of the worst things in this divorce is loving his family. I have a son and took him to see them yesterday. I visited with my son's grandma who passed away in 2013. It was hard...she never.got to meet him. I Love being around th but it's hard when they start telling stories about him. I always want to politely tell them that I don't care. But the hardest part is not being able to give my son what I had growinh up...both mom and dad there with all the time. I'm so heartbroken that ot came to this but I know I did nothinh wrong. It really breaks my heart being away from my son. He is only 5 months and I still can't cope with the 50/50 custody. I am a mess when I am not with hopefully it gets better but it doesn't feel likely :(
Just take each day at a time, if they tell you stories just tell them that you dont want to hear them anymore, you shouldnt have to sit through them if they're making you angry/upset.
If you're missing your son while his dad has him then plan things to do with him so it takes your mind off of the fact he isnt with you at that time.
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Thank you...I have to get over the dislike for him first