i met this guy online and we also talk on the phone as well but we live in a two different countries!i m unconditionaly in love with him he also says that he loves me, but my friends says that this is not love because u cant fall in love with a person u never met in real life....so i just wanted to know that do i have to be in this relationship or get over it?
Hey sweetie,
I have often found myself to build up a great rapport and warm feelings toward people I've chatted to online. However, i think you would need to meet him to confirm your true feelings.
Is this not possible?
Love to you hunny
Moongal x
hey dear!
i wish i could meet him but unfortunately i cant because he lives in a different country which is far away from the country i live, he cant even come here because he studying and i cant go neither!
but he says that we will meet one day and he always talk about future that we will get married too and all that stuff...i really dont know if it the right thing to do or i m just taking too deep!
i appreciate ur support.
Lucky
Hey Lucky,
I think that maybe ye are crossing a line and feelings could get hurt. Talk about marriage is a lot when you don't really know this person, even though you may feel you do.
When we haven't met someone, there are so many spaces of them that we haven't seen and naturally because we really really like them, we will feel these up with positive things...eg how he acts with his family, friends, how physically attracted ye will be to each other...so I would advise you to go with caution, tell him, that you would be so excited about meeting him..and I hope ye do and I really would hope that it works out, but you really need to meet before you can talk seriously about a future as there will start to be blurred lines...like does that mean you are exclusive now even though ye never met...it's really complicating a situation that doesn't need to be complicated.
I hope this helps in some way.
Love to you hun
Moongal x
hey dear
you are right i think i should meet him first,
it really helped indeed.
thank u moongal.
Hey,
Glad to help, I know how hard it is to be really into someone from chatting online...but think of it this way, what you know of him seems good and you're hoping to know more, so that's really positive.
Love to you
Moongal x
Hi Lucky_gal1, it's so wonderful that you met someone so great online, but I have to piggyback on what Moongal suggested. If you haven't met in person and spent time with one another, then it may be a bit too preemptive to discuss a lifetime together. I just don't want you setting yourself up for hurt or closing yourself off to meeting other people. Although I am a total romantic at heart and want to hear a very happy end to your story with this man, I just want to make sure that you protect yourself and continue to put yourself out there until you two can realistically meet. If he makes it happen, then it's worth giving it a try. A close friend of mine met her significant other during her European travels and they've made it work. Four months into it now and they're talking about moving to one country or the other. I know that it's possible. As well, I have heard many stories of people meeting online and maintaining a long distance relationship, but meeting in person has always been a part of the equation.
I am really holding out hope for you and your online love :-)
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