“Option A is not available. So let’s just kick the **** out of option B.” These words are so true and really apply to us too. Even tho our spouse did not die, they did divorce us. So they are not available to us, so we must find the next best available.
Sometimes the next best available is you, yourself. I have been celibate since my husban died and it's working for me, i am learning more about myslef than I ever thaought I would and more about living in the world on my own and the confidence that gives you.....make no mistake by any means, if a great guy was dropped in my lap, i wouldn't say no, I'd work at making it work.
Alright, there is nothing wrong with being celibate, l am proud that you just put it out there. I am celibate too, and it doesn't bother me at all. Think sex is overrated. Think more woman can do without it. Gives more time for me. You rock girl.