Porn & pictures?

how are you supposed to cope with your significant other being addicted to porn & pictures whether nude or in very little clothing? my partner will immediately go to these items right after we have sex. what am I supposed to do?

Do you cuddle? That might help.

I don't quite know how to help you cope with it, but I'm 17 and I'm also addicted. Every time my "family" and I fight I turn straight to it...I dont know what to do...I don't like it but I cant stop. Any advice?

you can be anyone you want when you enter the porn ring I dont think it is a physical thing its pretend,did you ever pretend when you were young? same thing.My husband has been into porn since he was a kid ,didnt know it though,has online affairs with woman he will never meet.The pictures he sends isnnt even him,but these woman want him?They even call at all hours of the night and day.Did you ask your man why he feels the need to do this?I understand that you may feel that you are not doing the right thing to make him happy but please understand that it is not you!!!!!!Are you satisfied after sex,if so than make it known,follow him to the computer and finish it off,rub his back tell him you love him,be careful if he pushes you awayand your feeling get hurt than you know this is an addition and could leed you to a very long path to alot of hurt

Kjndjs, would be wise to discuss this w/your partner otherwise it will create more resentment & distance in the relationship & eventually people going their separate ways. As mentioned this has nothing to do w/you so try not to let it work on any insecurities, tell him to stop & if he cares enough about the relationship he will do something about it to make things right.

People tend to do this due to past history, the way one is raised, genetic links if applicable, traumatic experiences, so its probably in one of thoses areas to find answers & then let him work on seeking assistance for acknowledging it & wanting to change the behavior.

My heart goes out to you friend & all my strengths.

April