Is it normally after being hurt so many times by your ex's that now I feel nothing and is completely numb and have no feelings for anyone?? Only asking because their is a girl that is head over heels in love with me, but I have no feelings for anyone. I have been hurt so much in the past that now I just don't want to let anyone in anymore, is that normal???
Hi Dana - It's normal because you are probably so hurt that you completely shut yourself from letting any other feelings in. It's like your body is telling you to just stop hurting me already!
I honestly don’t know what to do anymore. I’m being honest with this girl and I feel horrible that I have no feelings for her.
until you are ready to give yourself the time to heal and the permission to love again you just might not.
i was so hurt by hurting myself and being unfaithful and just wrong to my ex that i didnt think i should be loved and almost lost the best woman in the world for me. i would say take it so and maybe try just doing things as friends and be honest about how you are feeling (and not feeling) for her. if its meant to be it will. we celebrated our first wedding anniversay oct 8 and we almost didn't date four years ago because i didn't think i had feelings for her.
If she's in love with you why not give it a try? Maybe she can make you feel something again. Who knows it might be just what you need. Tell her you're not sure about being in a relationship because you've been hurt before and you want to take it slow. Just hang out with her and if you end up not loving her then maybe at least you'd have a good friend. I think it's worth a shot. Tell her you aren't in love with her but you want to be friends and get to know each other better. Just be honest with her. Don't lead her on but don't push her away either because she might be someone you could like. I hope it works out =)
I think its normal to feel like this. I have too been hurt alot. Its something that will come to you in time. I feel that if you find someone worth letting in you will know. If you come across someone who you truly care about you will knw.And you might be scared but if real feelings are there you will know.
I felt the same way for a LONG time. I had 2 girls going loopy for me, and I felt nothing for them. I just wasn't ready, and hadn't healed. Its normal. :)
I think that our hearts can only tolerate so much abuse. After being in 2 marriages and multiple relationships with men, it's really only the friendship of other woman that can relate to mine us. The one thing that men don't understand is that when women get together, it's not sexual. Whatever happens in result of having an actual fun time together, only happens on a sexual level after that because of the compatibility, level of trust and chemstry. That's what is the start of a TRUE friendship, with no expectations.