Respect, why dont I get it my family treats me like crap and my friends think there better than me sometimes and just put me down and it hurts my feelings!! what should i do im really shy and sometimes just feel worthless like nothing is ever gonna go right help what should i do?
baby cat jade
im sorry u are feeling pain and that being shy u probably arent boppin those that are being disrepectful on the head or telling them where to go
why do u feel like this and why do u think the others behave as they do towards u?
love D :)
thank you very much for caring about my feelings it feels good to know someone doesnt think your weird or a loser and stuff like that..I think I feel like this because my life has been rough i mean really rough and im only 12 ha ! THat is the sad part. And my mom got social security dissablility so she will get money and my life might get better and im not used to that i have no familynthey wont talk to me and my mom and its all new to me all my friends have a lot of money and stuff so they make me feel bad but a feww dont also.... i think they might be a little bit jealous of my body and they think im pretty because im skinny Thank you lots
LOVE, Babycatjade- to D
babycatjade
sometimes it helps to know u are not alone and believe me u are never alone here hon
i guess its hard to see life changing for the better when u are use to the worst and hopefully mum will be getting more sorted out and that will allow things to become stable for u
as for those being jealous u could be right hon but not just cos u are skinny but cos u are going to be a smart girl and do the best so u can get the best out of life, sometimes we dont get what we want growing up but we can treat ourselves with respect and do the best for us every day and that allows us to have those things when we are older
keep chattin hon
love D :)
The pre-teen years are difficult, and truthfully, it can be hard throughout middle school and high school as many kids are trying to figure out who they are.
I think at this point it's important to focus on who you are, what you like to do, where your passions lie. Are there any clubs or activities you like to do? It's a good way to get to know yourself.
Hello! Thank you for sharing, some people just need to put nice people down to feel good about themselves. I think every day you should look in your mirror or every time you feel bad, tell yourself how great and beautiful you really are. I know this feels silly but you will believe it! And then you can own it! No one can make you feel bad unless you let them! You are great just how you are flaws and all (you know, because everyone has flaws and makes mistakes!)!
Dear D,Drake, And also me well not me the me up there
Thank you i think i am going to cry i just did a little bit i feel like this feeling but it feels weirdly good D i just wanted to know if you can like friend request on here because i would like to add you. you make me feel better about myself and just everything I think i could get used to this I kind of like knowing what its like for more people care and its funny because people help other people on here and they are complete strangers its nice why cant everyone be like that it would be nice huh.. And drake actually i do i am in cheerleading but we lost competition And to the me up therei think i might just give it a shot..
thank you.. thank you all
LOVE,, babycatjade
Oh honey you just get it all out!! Im so happy that we can make a difference in your life today! You are worth it! lol trust me, it might feel silly for a long time, but when you do tell yourself how great you are try to remember happy things in your life or feel happy while you say it! Eventually your brain really will associate your confidence with rewards and feeling good! Wishing you all the best! *hugs!*
Oh you are sweet! let me tell you this when I was your age I was also very shy. I allowed people to hurt my feelings because I never stood up for myself. I also think you are a very intelligent girl.
ways to help to boost your self esteem are to post little notes of encouragement to yourself in your room and read them everyday.
* When I believe in myself, so do others
* I express my needs and feelings
* I am my own unique self - special, creative and wonderful
and you are the more you tell yourself these everyday you will start to believe them about yourself and it will show.... others will notice.
Life is all about choices . look at you, you are 12 yrs old and reaching out to others instead of burying your emotions. That is healthy and very smart.
Me is right you NO One can make you feel bad about yourself unless you let them.
♥AG
baby cat
i would be proud to be your friend honey and have accepted your request
yes it would be nice if people off the site were supportive but sadly they are caught up in the here and now but look at how many people are reaching out to u to assist your journey and u make sure u tell yourself daily u are beautiful and smart cos u are
i am so proud hon that u are here reaching out and hope u have a great day
love always D:)
I ..I am speechless I feel soo special thak you all ,,I love all of you for helping me
do i really do that im sorry if i do and you werent very shy today you should be happy about that tehe and you are not worthless you mean so much to me and i dont know what i would do about you
i do not know how to respond..in a good way
allisa butter scotch
love the name hon i take it u and babycat know each other? sometimes its good for friends to clear the air and be honest about how they feel
and baby cat i am so pleased that u feel special and when a friend pays u a compliment just say thank u thats all it takes hon to acknowledge them and have a great day both of u
love always D :)
haha i like the name too, And yes we do shes my besty bestbest bestbest friend and big sister i love her soo much. and thank you allisa and thanks to D i now know how to respond with a thank you
baby cat
soon u will be teaching me hon u are picking things up so quickly
love D :)
Dear D,
Hello its me as you can see
just telling you I say I think you are a college professor
Hey babycatjade! I wanted to check in and see how you are doing!!! I hope you are feeling better, even if it's just a little! -M