Hello. I am at a point in my life where I am looking at splitting with my husband. I have felt that I needed to do this for a very long time,but always found excuses to stay. While I was growing up, my mother married 4 times, I moved yearly, so this is the most stable my life has ever been. Stable yet dysfunctional. I always wanted to wait until my children were out of the house, but I do not see myself staying in this situation for 10 more years. Any ideas on how to stay strong without backing out? Help!
Have you tried counseling? Its not healthy for you to stay in a situation that you aren't happy in. No matter how old your children are, its going to hurt. They will eventually realize that having mom and dad happy-together or not, is what is really important.
HI Hezzyrae, I'm very sorry for what you are going through, but you have come to the right place for support, comfort and advice! Welcome to supportgroups!
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Sending hugs, Suzee