Separating happiness from Dreams
Misunderstanding of the word "Dreams" Dreams won't bring you happiness :
Dream is a big word and we think by attaining our dreams we will be happy .
Everyone has a dream it could be a little child who's dreaming or a guy in his 80s and the list goes on.
But here's what I'm trying to point out
That alot of us including me misunderstood that tiny little part that is called happiness when we actually start chasing our dreams or working for it etc.
We have that idea that we can't be happy in the moment but we can be happy when our dreams become a reality.
And when we get there were not happy because we thought that dreams could bring us happiness and we get shocked when we're there as a result we get depressed and some of us commit suicide because of that misunderstanding.
The separation
From now on I want you to separate Dreams from happiness because this is the reality even if your dreams became a reality you won't be happy I'm really sorry in fact because of that idea that not being happy now but be happy then you may not be able to accomplish your goals or dreams you'll quit that's from what I've faced literally going all out and in the middle of the way I stop and feel empty not happy and then all that negative thoughts that you didn't choose the right path and you made a mistake by choosing it things could happen for you like having a job that you hate and feel lost and live a miserable life.
Conclusion
If you are not happy now you'll never be happy even if you're dreams became a reality because dreams are in the future eventually they'll be in the now and guess what you're not going to be happy because you're not happy now you didn't learn to be satisfied and be happy in the moment
1 tool will help you to be happy in the now.
1. Satisfaction
Yes satisfaction no matter what bad situation you're into financially Terminal illness,Homeless etc.
If you're satisfied with what you have that's happiness.
But that doesn't mean you don't work hard or you sit and do nothing you'll have to work hard and chase you're dreams and be happy now satisfaction you don't need anything else.
Rashed Aldosari
Tell me what you think:) and good luck with your journey