Still looking for some online friends to talk about life with, just sedn me a friend request and I will accept all, as I nedd all the friend I can get now.
dennis
i will send u a friends request after i have posted this but keep posting out here in the main forum so u have plenty of friends and feed back
i know its hard to find a reason why u are left and its even harder to pick up the everyday things when u dont feel like it but we keep going somehow
as always loving thoughts and positive vibes
D :)
Another day, Well here we go again another lonely sad day, hoping things will get better with suport from online friens. Always here to listen adn share. Dennis
dennis
im sorry that the days arent gettin any better but mayb u need to break them up into chunks so that u have soemthing to look forward to, im not sure if u have a mobile library or meals on wheels type things where u live or if u have a church that visits people so that u can at least have company for a short while.
hope u have a better day tomorrow
as always loving thoughts and positive vibes
D :)
Thanks Anni, I still feel like beinging alone, hurts to see happy couples, I know that doesn't sound very nice, but I'm better home with my dog and 8 cats now. Really like chating with you as it gives me somethign to look forward to each day. I wss always a home body after my wild years and I got married at age 32. Did I tell you I had polio at age 3?? got what they now call post polio sysdrome. You can look it up on the computer google it if you want. Dennis
dennis
i suppose it is hard to see couples doing couply things was speaking about this last night with a friend who has been single/widowed for twenty years now, she was saying that the nuts and bolts of relationships were difficult to cope with for a long while after then she couldnt find the confidence to get back in the water and swim, but hon u dont want to be a recluse and miss everything, lots of people are content with there own company but even they need others at times just to practise speech and thoughts
im not to hot at the computer but u are in luck my eldest grandchild is here this morning so i can google post polio syndrome via him and read about it.
its strange u dont think of polio or several of the other illnesses they managed to get a grip of do u anymore and since ian dury i cant think when we last saw anyone with it can u?
loving thoughts and positive vibes untill later
D :)
Domestic, yes polo has been stopped if you get the vaccine. 3rd world countries still have outbreaks, I had polio in 1953 just a few years before the vaccine, can't complain thou, It made me who I am today and I was lucky to onky have my right leg affected. Dennis
dennis, are you able to get out of the house without help or must you depend on someone else? if you can get out the house try to go at least one sunday to any church and you will be surprised how friendly everyone can be .I also have post polio and I am a widow and ihave found that you have to meet people at least half way to get a friendly responce. sometimes we find it hard to brake out of out comfort zone. but I know that you can do it ----one step at a time. tucson, arizona is my home town,however my health got really bad and I had to move to georgia to live with mydaughter. It really did upset me to have to move as I had to give up my home in tucson but I am making new friends here. so i know how diffcult that can be. I lived in tucson for 40 years and had a lot of friends ,so I am starting over. try asking your daughter to go with you 1 sunday to kinda get you started. i also am having to take it one step at a time.
I am sorry for your loss take one daya t a time I still do taking one step at a time.
I know what your going though it has been 11 years since I lost my husband of 43 years. I still hurt but not as often and don't know where to go with this new life at my age. It is very lonely at times even when family or friends ar around. My main ? was why am I still here? for what? My kids are all grown and have familys of they own,How do I start a new life with someone at this age? 68 years.Starting over is hard at this age.
I been looking for a friend too.
I would love to be your friend. I am also a widow .I lost my husband in 1999. I thought at the time that I just couldn’t go on ,we had been married for 51 years. a litle bit a a time I have made it. I had church friends who insisted on helping me even though at the time alot of the time I didn’t want to go anywhere or do anything. I thank God for them every day. I don’t know if you go to church or not ,but if you do try to go to all of the functions .with God’s help you will make it.I have 6 grandchildren &
7 geat grandchildren and I enjoy every one of them. I keep up with what is going with each with e-mail.I lived in arizona for 40 years and lived in the same city with my grandchildren and was there when they were born. I was there when they got married and was very clost to them,then I got sick & can’t live by myself so I had to move to Georgia with my daughter.everything was a complete change for me .I am thankful for the enternet ,that is the way I keep up with everyone. I don’t get out much,so don’t have news to share with you .but please know that I am thinking of you & wish you the best.
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