So here's the thing. I ruined our relationship by being jealous but she is now talking to me and seeing me. We are trying to rebuild but she is losing faith and love for me. What should I do?
Just keep pushing to make the relationship better. You can do this but it will take some time.
She is starting to drift away from me. I know she loves me and now I know why I was being jealous and I can fix it with the help I'm getting. I just need her to hold on and see me become the man I want to be. I'm fat and ugly at the moment but I'm trying to drop the weight and look better.
Well here's the news. I'm going up there tomorrow and I'm in with a chance, I just have to get rid of this insanity jealousy for good. I have the odd thought but much less than a month ago. Am I on the mend?
@Chrisfisher777 Yes I do believe you are heading in the right direction and I am so happy for you.
So here is an update, Ann and I are together and happy. I know I still have a long way to go to get rid of this monster inside completely but I will win.
@Chrisfisher777 Wow this is great great news and just keep working on it things will get better. xx
We are doing well, Ann asked me to move in with her and said I should get rid of my apartment, a few hours later she is asking me when I'm going home. I'm a bit confused to be honest. I want to be with her and I do want to move in but I'm afraid she might change her mind and then I'll be homeless
@Chrisfisher777 Just take one step at a time and mention this fear to her so that she knows that you are trying and do want to be with her but you are not ready to let go of the apartment just yet. Keep the communication open with her. I am so happy for you Chris. xx
Thank you, I'm trying so hard, we have been out a couple of times and instead of clinging on to her and listening to every conversation she has with store keepers or anyone in general, I have walked away and given her some space. She has then walked to me, put her ran through mine and kissed me. That has made me so happy. This reflected on me and she has been so happy and said she loved the way I was.
Good so you are headed in the right direction just keep on working on this issue and you will see things get better over time.
Great day today, we had a good talk and we both want this to work. I just need to stop over thinking things and get my head together but how the hell do I do that?
Look up meditation online and see if you can start doing that it will clear your mind works great for me.
I can't concentrate long enough for that, my mind is always in overdrive.
Well try to get out and walk so you can clear your mind
Is it possible to love someone too much. I try and ease off a little but I'm always so intense all the time.
Just slow down or you will lose her
I know I will but how do I slow down?
I wish I had an answer for you Chris but you have to figure out how to do that