So, I am in a country where being gay is illegal. I am not s

So, I am in a country where being gay is illegal. I am not struggling with self stigmatization. I'm struggling with luck of a support system. I came out about a month ago. My friends were okay with it but my family was against it. Nearly kicked me out but my dad supported me. Two weeks later , my dad who was the only one looking out for me is in hospital. And no one will help me clear his bill because he chose to support me when everyone else turned their back on me. Now i don't know what to do ? His medical bill is piling on me and no one seems to have a change of heart? Should i just say that i'm not gay so that they help or should i stand firm with this and just continue fundraising?

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it's just sad to see your family did that. your father is sick and their priority is sticking up for their ego. you're doing the right thing. hopefully they will come to their senses. send updates to your family about the bills if you can and ignore them when they bring their bigotry to the conversation

@bm9787 Yeah I always update them. Never get a response back. I’m just 18 its getting a lil hard to handle on my own but i hope it all works out. If it doesn’t i don’t know what i’m gonna do.