So I have had a few dreams about my husband cheating again. And in my dreams, I am upset, but ok. Before his affair if I had those dreams, I would be upset in the morning and sometimes angry with him in real life for what he did in my dreams. I am not upset this morning about my dream. Sucks that my real life drama is the nightmare, bad dreams are a relief because I can get away from them. Feeling glad my dreams didn't ruin my morning. I hope I stay ok today,I wound be on a 2 day steak!
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Yeah, dreams like that blow! I actually had 3 dreams that my husband cheated before I found out that he actually had cheated, and I remember waking up breathless it panicked me so much. Its been 4 years almost since, and now if I have that dream I don't panic, I guess when the nightmare becomes the reality it takes the trauma out of it. Here's hoping neither of us have THOSE dreams again!
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Yes! Exactly the same! I hope dreams continue to not make me cry, and no more real life nightmares!
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@Jenn7814 AMEN! 
Ugh....dreams are the worst! I have to deal with these thoughts all day, and usually sleep is when I get a break from it! I used to have dreams back before he was unfaithful, and I could just shrug them off, knowing that nothing like that would ever happen. Now that something like that has happened, I can't shrug them off as not being real, because now they are real! I feel for you, dreams are the worst! Try not to dwell though, they have the potential to ruin your whole day, and we want to see you continue on in your good day streak!!!!
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Dreams are the worst. The nightmares that haunt us will take awhile to go away. But they will. Whether we make a decision to stay or leave the relationship these wounds will heal. It just takes time. It takes to much da** time! The hardest part for me is having patience with myself.
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@Rasttabear in have no patience! I want things to be dealt with and fixed like yesterday !
@Jenn7814 It's almost like my impatience hinders me sometimes because of dwelling on it. Grieving has these cycles and I hate that! I want to be me again right now! Not later, not two years from now. Right now! I am glad I am not the only one that feels this way.
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