So I just confronted my boyfriend bc he hasn't been helping financially. We got are new apartment and he saying I need to give him time. Which he had 2 months to save.. He keeps giving me that sad excuse that he going through things and be patient. At this point I almost don't have nothing. Helping him so much. Just so overwhelmed.
Oh dear….how old are you two; how long dating and how long living together? Did he ever work? Does he have a job or unemployment benefits? Is he making effort to get a job? Or maybe he needs two jobs??? Is he in college? If you are mostly supporting him/how long is it going on? Do you work? What does he do all day or night?
Sorry for so many questions—just helps me understand
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@NCMom I’m 27 he 23 . We been together for a year. Living together for 5 months now…We was long distance at first… He had jobs through out the time… Then he and my family kept begging me to move in with him… Since I be closer to them…So I did. He started to get unemployment when I move in. I was hesitant. But he was paying most the bills. And I would also help too. Now that he doesn’t get unemployment he doesn’t want to do anything. He says he looking for a job but it’s always excuses. Also his mom helps support him too. And she expects me to take care of him." Bc when I first moved in he was paying for most of anything. "But I was helping to… So he putting that in my face. When we agreed who pays what., I understand u should help your partner but i don’t have money to support both of us as of right now. He thinks I’m just being selfish. I told him he needs to grow up. His mom doesn’t make it no better either. The only time she talks to me if it benefits her son. Then they always try to make me feel like I’m crazy when I stand up for myself.