So I need to understand meth. I met my husband in 2001 when he was in the salvation army rehab. As far as I know he's been clean and sober. Well, April 7/8 he suffered a heart attack while I was away. I got to the hospital an not only was his phone blowing up with druggie friends and sexting with the ex, the cardiologist old me his heart attack was caused by meth. I am still in shock over it all. What I need to know is he still doing it? I was trying to reconcile things an he has lasted long in bed and with frequency that was not normally his thing. He's had a stuffy nose, pneumonia and slept straight for days. Hes chalking it up on the heart attack and the fact that his d put him on new bipolar meds. Maybe, but he keeps calling and texting the guy i suspect is supplying him with meth. We are on the verge of divorce. Any adice as to tell the tell tell signs?
You have them.....and of course, speedy behavior, watery eyes, up for 24-48+hours at a time, grinding his jaw, snappy behavior.
If this is all the case, I'd say it's bad enough that I would get very serious about an action plan to save him.
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Wow. Yeah... He's on some **** and sounds like he's good at cover up if this is the first time you've considered he's on drugs. But, seriously, nobody is perfect and, well, you met him in rehab. He's an addict.
Maybe clarify some of your expectations. (Don't want that to sound rude. But literally - what are your expectation of him. Write them out. explain them to him. Talk them through with him. Communicate. You're his wife. A marriage is a beautiful arrangement where two people become one. Help him stand back up! He's fallen!
Thank you, for the great advice, just outof curiosity, how often does one snort?