So, last night we're watching our show (Hemlock Grove) & a guy is cheating and decides to leave his wife & he's going on about how much of a d-bag the guy is & I said something about how at least the wife can move on & yeah it will hurt but at least she won't be with someone who isn't really into being with her... He said that was a really rational way to see it - I said it's how I would want it - he got really quiet, and silent... But said nothing else... I gave him the opening to just confess & release me... But nope, said nothing... Why? Why can't he just confess & let me go? I have no idea how I'd survive on my own; get two more jobs probably, but I just want him to confess & let me be free....
You need to tell him you know. Guys don't take hints.
If you haven't told him, do you know how you feel about it all and how it will affect you going forward? You are still in shock, probably. I know for me I needed so much positive proof that he couldn't just give excuses or make me feel like I am crazy. So manipulative these cheaters!! I would think about all that before you tell him you know. Sending you hope and much strength. I know this is hard but you will be stronger and can deal with all this. You are the same wonderful person he fell in love with. Chances are he does not love her and he is getting a thrill. He may have done it cause it was so easy and didn't think of the consequences. I am so sorry. God's peace surround you.