So my ex texted asking for two more things he forgot when he

So my ex texted asking for two more things he forgot when he left me on New Year's Eve day. I found them put in bag hung outside. Texted same. That's it. Is this a ploy too.

he might be fishing to try to get some emotions out of you. Great idea keeping the bag outside for him, and truncating any further communication.

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It is a ploy. You did the right thing.

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Mine has done the same thing before to get his foot in the door. Good job. Stay strong.

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How inconsiderate of him to leave on holidays, hiw cold

@lanahelp mine left last xmas and thanksgiving so seems to be a thing with narcs

For sure. I even had a vacation time. I knew he would sabotage. And he did. It was awful.

I'm reading the three faces of evil. It's easy read. I feel like portions of my life are in it. Must read. By Christine Louis de canonville

@Lynniethelinewolf What is it? A book about narcs or just plain evil people?

Book. Great information. She experienced narcs. Became therapist helping both narc and victims. No teaching other therapists what to look for. Not evil people NARCs

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@Lynniethelinewolf
Narcs = evil ppl

Yes ok. I understand.