i am so SICK of people implying - or saying straight out, in some cases - that when someone has an eating disorder, it's because they want attention. that's the LAST thing i want. all i want is to accept myself, to stop what i'm doing. i started dieting because i hated how i looked. my dad had called me fat. and it was something i could DO without asking permission from him.
it WAS NOT and IS NOT about getting attention from anyone, for anything.
anybody else have to deal with this? if so, any advice?