This site is still very new to me, but I need help. I was molested by my own brother when I was just a little girl and it is just now impacting my life more than ever. I feel like my whole world has been turned upside down. My life is so horrible that it is affecting my relationship with my mother to the point that we don't even talk anymore. Now that she refuses to talk to me about it or even listen to me talk to her, I have no one to turn to. My husband tries to help me, but it just isn't enough. I have never spoken to anyone who really understands what I am going through that could help me cope with my problem.
i would see a therapist. maybe they can give you some advice, how to heal, and how to deal with your family.it sounds like your mother is in denial about it. i am sorry for what you went through. it is probably really hard on you because you dont have the support you need from your mom. husbands are great at being there for you but sometimes it is still hard because you want your mom to be understanding, supportive, and loving. i hope this helps.