Stuck in a pit and dont know how to get out, it seems like every one either lies to me or uses me and tosses me to the side when finished, in some cases both I dont know what to do or how to get out of this hole
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@grex I hoped you're having therapy. You have self esteem, and stress issues. But now, you seemed to suffering from depression, you posted you're in a hole, and don't know how to get out of this hole. I am here, and so are SG friends to support, and be supported. Be strong, the best is yet, to followed.... Be hopeful.
@Irma thanks and I’m fighting to get out and I know there are people here for me, it just feels like I need that one person in the real world to reach and go it will be okay I’m here and I won’t leave you and for a change actually mean it a be there when I feel I can open up unjudged and let me cry on there shoulder no matter how many tears I shed
The story of my life..time to put your foot down and look after you!no point in arguing with the ones that crap all over you its a waste of time..they will always be who they are..you need to break away from them as i had to learn after years of it to do just that..surround yourself with positive people and learn to love you..amazing how much better you will feel.only one life to live up to you to make the best of it.
@rena22 - That is so true! well said rena 
I sometimes feel like people say crap on me when they say mean and bad things too. its ridiculous. you have reminded me to start loving myself again. its hard but working towards it is progress. one day we will all triumph and rise above the hate and the hatters and mean talkers will feel the same pain the put on us. good riddens!
I know I must love myself before anyone else can 'love me'. After an almost ten year marriage, three children--now grown-- and divorce twenty-five years ago (((!!!))), I am still working on accepting and loving myself. Slow learner, I am.
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Yes thats just what to do…good idea .although a difficult one… but sometimes we just have to do what we have to do…an its amazing how they too can survive without us…sometimes what they do to us is all for nothing…good luck and keep smiling!
hi ..first time here ...every inconvenience is only an opportunity wrongly perceived ...my mother taught me this , and now , after many years , i have created a shortcut to make this more effective ....i was being brutalized recently , and in the middle of it , i decided to expand my mind and try to understand how this person who was teasing me and threatening to injure me with his weapons , and i just let it go , ;; that is , my own need to see this as just something i wanted to go away ..true , fact , but not the only way to see this ...so ....i imagined that this was as much a part of my wonderful life experiences , as all the desired and pleasant stuff...and i simply saw a connection between us , not conflict .....he was desiring conflict , i saw my patience and dignity being more important ..i utilized will power, and i claimed victory.....i now saw that without knowing my future , perhaps these experiences were somehow lessons , on how to administer compassion to strangers , themselves intent on injuring or robbing me ....and i saw their sickness , and now i am developing an almost monklike sense of general forgiveness, both for those afflicted , and also toward myself , claiming my peace of mind back from an abyss , that was a result of negative self talk ..i am simply quiet inside , and very thankful .......e.murphy.missoula