My partner has a property that is going to be let out to holiday makers. She was talking about setting up a meeting with someone to get advice on how to find tenants and I got jealous and irritated that she didn't invite me to go to the meeting with her. She is also getting a Euro passport and she has to go there to complete the process. I felt excluded and marginalized and I started brooding over it. Yesterday I drank nearly a whole bottle of whiskey and then I got into an argument with her about everything. It wasn't a bad argument, but it was enough to have a lot of tension between us now.
How do I get out of being so sensitive and petty? She also said how I try to rob her of her independence and it's like I want to take everything away from her so that she depends entirely on me, and she is probably right, I probably feel like that. What can I do? What's wrong with me?