I threaten my boyfriend to commit suicide if he leaves me...I am one desperate person...I need help..
dee hun
at least you know that there is something wrong with using a suidice threat to try to control someone. my questions honey is what are you going to do about it?
and if you really do feel suicidal "for real" call for help right away or get yourself to the nearest er.
i have used the suicide card much back in my younger years and i have also felt suicidal "for real" with in the past year. honey it's not something to be taken lightly and if there is somethin i can do to help, i'd be happy to.
ThAnks:) i really need hugs today…i will talk to my friend who is a psycholigist this afternoon. I am also afraid of myself now and what i can do. I am afraid of losing my bf so i always beg him to come back without realizing that i am turning him away because of my suicidal tendencies.
Hi,
Just wanted to comment here, even tho for some reason i feel no right to.
I go thru stages where i so wraped up in suicide that its something that becomes very real. I think that manuliplating your bf about this topic is wrong and i credit you for noticing that. Ever heard of the boy who cried wolf? What happens then if you do fall into a suicidal state and then ask for help and your bf wont listen to you coz he has heard it all before?
I just felt i had to comment coz its something that is really real to me.
I think the realization of what your doing is the first step. Whats the next step? idk, but maybe keep trying to become aware of what your saying. Keep your words close to mind and and think before you speak. Pretty lame techniques i know, but i think you can come up with some maye better things?
Thank you so much. It made me realize that doing so wont make sense. I would think more of what words come out of my mouth:)
I Understand Being Desperate, But I Have Come To Find Great Support From A Website Called "To Write Love On Her Arms" Or, TWLOHA, It Has In Fact Really Changed My Life. I Know That It Is Only Words, But It Means More to Know That You Are Not Alone.
That There Are Other People Who Feel The Same Way
That You Shouldn't Beat Yourself
That Life Is Delicate, And You Hold It In Your Own Hands
That You Have To Love Yourself, Before You Can Ever Truly Love Someone Else, & That You Should Always Look Up, Always Remember The Stars. That Is Reason Enough To Stay Alive.
-L.R.W.
This is what i should learn…to love myself and take good care of myself. thanks for the reminder:)