About a little over a year ago, I posted a comment looking for support friends and have lots of support friends and for the people that know me knows I am shy and have a fear of posting a reply on people post, cuz I am afraid of saying something wrong, I am working on that though but I just wanted to post letting everyone know I am here for you and if you ever needed someone to talk to about whatever or if you need someone to listen to you if you needed someone to vent to feel free to send me a message or and/or if you are looking for a friend feel free to request to be my support friend on here.
I feel the same, but I speak my mind respectfully and don't mean to offend anyone if it may seem rude or ungrateful. Please let me know if you believe that I am speaking out of terms if you fell that way. Am open to any one also.
Ya'll are fine. Thank you for your support and comforting words. If we didn't want to hear it then we wouldn't be here. We all come here for help that can't be found elsewhere. So all ya'll keep leaving comments for us. We love them no matter what!
dear princess, i strongly feel we are cultivating a friendship because you have reached out to me and my situation.you have demonstrated that while you accept my caring for you, you also care back for me and that makes me feel really good and i thank you for that. i am lonely and look for to this site for consolation and comfort as well as to give it. so thank you for giving to me as well as receiving. all my best and i sincerely hope you have a blessed evening free from stress and anxiety. from your humble prayer warrior
Thanks for all of your replies and like I said I am working on my fear of replying on another persons post cuz I fear of saying something wrong, but that will take time, I can't just get over this fear in a day. I have posted on a few post and I think every post I reply to and everyday that passes the closer I had to overcoming this fear. Like I said though I am here for you guys and if you ever need someone to listen feel free to send me a message and/ or request to be my support friend. Thanks for your encouraging words it has helped me. Love you all!
dear Princess you have alot of nice and friendly and supportive things to say. don;t be afraid to post. pray to God and the Holy Spirit to guide you and leave the rest up to Him and it will be ok. i don't think you will offend anyone because your heart is in the right place. i am glad you are trying.
all my best with faith and hope you will be my support friend, maria
hey princess you are a great support buddy. if i dont get back to you guys sometimes i dont realize that i didnt. i appreciate all the kindness and support. you all are great!
Thanks Maria and Ashley for your support in this it your kind and supportive words really help me to over come my fear. Thanks again! I really appreciate it.
dear princess, i notice you are posting alot and this is a good thing. you have noticable more friends online who really care about you. so you see that all it took was you reaching out? you did this princess. you are true to your nature. delicate royal and true blue. i admire you. you also care back and encourage back in your own natural and instinctive and genuine manner!
all my best, you have my hope and faith, your prayer warrior,
Princess, I want to thank you for your posts. It is mostly because of you that I gained the courage to admit to myself and finally to my therapist the extent that I cause physical damage to myself. I am finally getting help with it. THANK YOU.
Yah stanisz I have been posting a lot and getting lots of support back. I do have lots of support friends that do care about me and I care about them. And I just posted this post cuz I wanted everyone to that I am still here for everyone even know I have a fear of saying something wrong on someone post and that they can send me a message and or send me a friend request. Thanks stanisz!
Tools you are very welcome and I am honored that I helped you in the way that I did, I gave you the courage to tell your therapist and now you are getting the help you need, that is awesome and you are very welcome again and again I am honored, I am really glad I helped you! It makes me feel very good that I helped you that way.
dear princess, i too need alot of reassurance in some areas of my life and will go to great lengths to get it as well. even if i feel i am "right" i will suffer inside until i get the reassurance from others that i did do or say the right thing. i know how it is to feel the need to get reassurance.
what i do here online is to pray for guidance from the Holy Spirit and to ask for help in the right thing to say. i try to do this in my daily life as well. and i like to think that i am always receiving this guidance even if i am not aware of it moment to moment. but because i have turned my will and my live over to the care of God as i understand Him, He will not fail me. if i make a mistake i apologize. there is always that.
you bring up issues that affect my life anyway and i appreciate that. when people answer you they are answering me too in that way. your issues may seem simple and in a way they are, but you have faith in us to bring them up number one and number two because you do this helps us all, at least it helps me explore myself in ways i didn't know about. like i hadn't thought about how much i need reassurance until you brought it up.
so thanks for your candid, honest approach, princess. never stop being you. i love you just the way you are. don't be afraid to share. your simple honest approach is very refreshing and healing.
all my best with hope, faith and loving kindness, maria