Talking behind my back

found my family are talking behind my back again. Last time was because i was depressed and anxious and stayed with my mam. I said I new but it was denied. This week I was a little down and weather is to bad to get out unless necessary went to the shops with her today . where there was a text from my sister who was in work and asked was she alone , she new what it meant an put it away. It is hurtful to know they talk behind my back feel like i am not wanted. Didn’t think my mam told them I was here . what do I do

This is just evil. I’m sorry that your family is not aware that they’re hurting you while you’re in a bad state. Have you confronted them beforehand?

I do think you should talk to them. Is it possible that they are just trying to figure out how best to support you?

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Just playing devils advocate here: is it possible that your sister has her own issue and needs to speak with your mam privately?
Maybe it isn’t about you at all…oftentimes I feel that being straight forward is better for my own peace of mind. Perhaps you could tell your family how you are feeling and tell them how they can help! Sometimes, people don’t know what to say or do, so they ignore the problem.
Also, I have a family member I don’t want and she would never be allowed under my roof. No matter what.
I think your family loves you very much, they may not know what you need.
Sending you hugs, you sound like you could use a big, Bear hug :hugs:

I think your right . They do want to help but have to look after themselves to.