The reason i'm here in this support forum complaining all the time about my relationship, is because i struggle with the whole issue of setting boundaries. Boundaries were unclear and cross many times in my relationship. He and i grew up differently and had different relationship experiences. Since we came together as a couple, we've fought through this problem on many levels, not just sexual. People sometimes ask me, when i tell them about his behaviour, why i stay. I love him. It's that simple. He gives me a lot of what i want. I would have boundary issues in any relationship - because i've always had trouble setting boundaries with people. I would rather fight through this issue with a man i love. Talking it through with all of you, helps me validate my feelings. I found this article, thought it might help others who are struggling with the same http://psychcentral.com/lib/10-way-to-build-and-preserve-better-boundaries/0007498
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Thank you <3 so glad to know other people can relate :)
Thank you. I need to work on setting boundaries with my husband as well.
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Boundaries not possessiveness is a grey area at times big problems with my x and I both ways but learn and grow I do miss her but being single again has made me grow move on a healthy path as we are splitting peacefully best for kids each other an affair for any reason will never happen again
I understand what you are saying. I'd rather have a bad day with my husband than a million happy ones with someone else. He's my choice warts and all.
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