There are so many of us that been hurt so bad by our spouse cheating on us and it's the worst pain I have ever had in my life we want our marriage to work and get past this pain and be happy with our wife or husband again this will take so long to hopefully get past and have a great relationship with them again .my question is this is it worth saving is it worth the pain I feel when I'm with her to know what she has done or is it better to let them go and hurt but get the chance to move on I would love to know what you think because I just don't know my mind is in a constant fog and lost have no idea what to do next
A good friend of mine who went through what we are going through told me that so many people give up because it is easier." Only a strong person is willing to stay and fight."
It is hard as hell. You always want to know where they are and what the are doing. Its torture. Its torture when they dont pick up the phone when you call, No sure if they are at work or the other person's house. Thats where I am right now. I cannot control my husband, I never could.