They are unable to deal with feelings of guilt, so they pin them on you. You are expected to take on their imperfections as well as your own. Soul rape. Too much for any human to bear without falling apart. We are not intended to be the like of Jesus Christ. He died for that so we don't have to...and that was solely intended for our own imperfections. God knows we aren't strong enough to bear another's. Just a passing thought in all of this madness...
We are intended to be perfect, bit we are all broken and struggle with that shortfall. He never puts that weight on us, but was crushed in our place
@Richard188 exactly, He doesn’t put that weight on us, because He knows we can’t bear it. That’s why He bore it for us. That’s what I was trying to express.
But narcs dump it on us, plus they dump any baggage on us. Their emotional baggage. They can’t deal with that either so it gets dumped on us.
Then they go about like they’re perfect. All their stuff is dumped on us, we are worn down to nothing, so we are no longer of any use.