Things have been very difficult in my current relationship,

Things have been very difficult in my current relationship, which is the whole reason why I found this website (to find support). Well.... It's bad. And through reading other stories on here, and living my "normal" day-to-day life, I see that nothing about my relationship is "normal."

Everything with my boyfriend is a fight. There's constant lack of respect or self controlon his part. I fear for my daughter and his influence on her. I feel like a protective momma bear who can't do anything outside of family life anymore because I don't trust him alone with her. I think he's doing a ton of emotional damage.

I've never been treated so poorly in my life, especially when I try SO HARD to just to try to make him smile. I feel like I can't make him happy even though I'm always going out of my way for him. I can't please him.

I constantly am put down by him and mistreated, even in front of our daughter. But now it's getting to the point where he's doing it more publicaly.

I truly don't think I'm doing anything wrong, but maybe I am. I do know that I have self control (especially in front of my daughter) & that he does not.

I'm worried. I took our daughter and we left, to stay at my parents house, just for the night.

I feel like I can get some good advice here. It seems like I'm not the only one here who is treated this way. I really need to talk to others. Please help!!

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Tell him how he's making you feel, and if that turns into a fight and he's not willing to listen to you.... I think you know what I'm gonna say here. You and your daughter do NOT deserve to be treated that way, NOBODY does. Make this choice yourself, give yourself some control back!

As said, no one deserves to be treated like that, and it sounds if it could get dangerous. Talk to him, but if he can't listen or respect your feelings, well you know what to do. In short, you and your daughter deserve better.

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