Things have been very difficult in my current relationship,

Things have been very difficult in my current relationship, which is the whole reason why I found this website (to find support). Well.... It's bad. And through reading other stories on here, and living my "normal" day-to-day life, I see that nothing about my relationship is "normal."

Everything with my boyfriend is a fight. There's constant lack of respect or self controlon his part. I fear for my daughter and his influence on her. I feel like a protective momma bear who can't do anything outside of family life anymore because I don't trust him alone with her. I think he's doing a ton of emotional damage.

I've never been treated so poorly in my life, especially when I try SO HARD to just to try to make him smile. I feel like I can't make him happy even though I'm always going out of my way for him. I can't please him.

I constantly am put down by him and mistreated, even in front of our daughter. But now it's getting to the point where he's doing it more publicaly.

I truly don't think I'm doing anything wrong, but maybe I am. I do know that I have self control (especially in front of my daughter) & that he does not.

I'm worried. I took our daughter and we left, to stay at my parents house, just for the night.

I feel like I can get some good advice here. It seems like I'm not the only one here who is treated this way. I really need to talk to others. Please help!!

Doesn't hurt to research other options for you & daughter, as you know this is effecting her, kids learn what they live in & repeat the cycle of bad history. I realize finances keep one stuck yet there still can be alternatives to find, quietly if necessary. Found this link, though you already know what your up against so baby steps to a better path are in order, show your daughter how its done, lead her through.

http://ladywithatruck.com/abuse-can-be-subtle-and-deadly/

he is a narcissist... leave him go to this website and read about it and see if it describes him--- www.esteemology.com it helped me soooo much.

If you ever need to talk you can message me.. I go through the same thing. Currently it's horrible on my part as well. We could go through things together