This question has been on my mind are some time now.
I act a certain way due to having BPD. In turn people act a certain way towards me. Question: How much am I to blame for the girlfriend that cheated, the long time friend that just left me and the parents that are 87 and still don't call?
@Ian@westcoast - I don't think anyone can be blamed for a girlfriend or boyfriend who cheats. What happened with your friend? Do you think the relationship is repairable? Hugs!
As far as my old friends are concerned, I think that ship has sailed a long time ago. 20 years ago now that I was told f-off. I have seen him once in that time, it was OKAY at best.
As far as the cheating girlfriend, I just think maybe I may have pushed her being the way I am.