Today I feel good .. I decided to not to let the OW have control over me and my feelings and life anymore.. Yes I still hurt from everything.. but I cant let her control me anymore...My hubs is doing everything imaginable to make it right and he is doing a great job.. showering me with love..proving everyday I am where his heart is and who he loves..I by no means am forgetting about the EA he had...but its time to let go and move on...I just hope I stay strong and keep the forward motion to a happy healthy lifetime of love with my hubs...
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Good to hear...really helps having your spouse doing everything they can to help you...my wife is doing the same and I just had to start letting go of things to allow her love to start flowing back into me. I still have anger towards the om but am learning to give that over to God. I just say God take care of this creep for me so I don't have to and punish him so he doesn't wreck anymore families or women. I know the best thing God could do would be save him and ask him to do that to...but it really does help giving up vengeance to Him and yes keeps them out of your marriage for good...why would we even a mention of them near our marriage or waste a brain cell thinking of them.
@mountainclimber
I agree…I let karma do her thing…it is not her fault as my hubs admitted to leading her on…but it is easier to hate her than to hate not hubs…besides…I have a marriage to save. .and an ugly soul like hers is not worth my marriage…
She is just as much at fault....
Yeah they both are but your husband is the one that you care about...don't waste time thinking about her...but if you do just give it over to God as He will take care her the best way.
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thanks everyone.. I am doing my best to get rid of the power I feel she has over me...