Im going to try and think of myself first. I know it's early in the day, but all of my friends have said happy b-day and the one who i think i need to hear it from the most, hasn't. For the last 7 years he has woken me up w/flowers, cooked breakfeast, and dinner and then we would watch a movie and enjoy each other. today is going to be a hard day, but i've made up my mind that i am going to try and have a good one. w/o him.
Im going to try and love myself from this day on more that i loved him.
Happy Birthday!!!
It's hard not to hear that from those we love. It hurts and it can bring you down.
For the last three years, my daughter has refused to wish me a happy birthday, a merry Christmas or to even wish me well while I was laid up in a hospital. She only came once to the hospital once to see me. And, the only reason for that was because I told her how I felt about her not doing so during my previous admission.
However, try not to let it get you down. If he can't see how awesome you are then he is not worth it. In my opinion: He has shown you his true colors and that is really a good indicator that he is not someone who can make anyone happy. You don’t need someone like that. You are also fortunate to have found this out now instead of at some point in the future.
I hope you find tons of things to be happy about on this special day. I hope that your friends, neighbors, your boxers and everyone else fill your day with joy.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY :)
Thank you, thank you so much. I have issues with my mother, she told me that she has never agreed with my marrage and that it was just a matter of time that she firgured i would be going through something like this. But i love her with all my heart and if she were in the hosp or getting treatment for anything i would be right their with her. She might not know how to express her self but i know she loves me with all her heart. I can only say that one day and hopefully it will not be to late she will realize we all only have one mother and that a mothers love is not like any other, i don’t know what your relationship is , but do you think that it might just be too hard for her to see you in the hosp. I work in the medical field and volunteer as a sitter when i can. My twin sis say’s that she just can’t stand being in the hosp and seeing people hurt and in pain and what she views as helpless. Its hard for her. hope this gives you a diff view. I appreciate your post. and thank you for the happy b-day wishes. it has been a nice one so far.