Today was the first day in a while where things actually felt normal and I didn't have a melt down... I am learning to talk about my issues with the affair my husband had while working on our marriage... The hurt and betrayal is still there but I'm learning how to deal with it without going off on him.. And just taking it one day at a time one foot in front of the other And with the help of God and prayer... It also helps me having a group like this to talk to and see how others deal with the same situation and to have such a supportive family... I am so glad I found this group...
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@zhillscple I am happy for your husband, and you! The healing of your marriage, and relationship will be a work in progress... But at least you'll are speaking about his infidelity. I am so glad you have Faith in God, and you are praying. It's the begining of Healing of your marriage.... Be strong, the best is yet, to followed...... SG friends are here, to support, and be supported. Keep the Faith
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You have every right to be mad and hurt take care of yourself 1st if you can't forgive him being I had an affair I would not blame you
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@Irma thanks... I know it's going to be a long road to heal the hurt that I feel and to trust him... He's the love of my life, we were high school sweethearts and I love him with all my heart and soul and hope that our marriage will come out even stronger than before...
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@Ts23 I am taking care of me which is something I haven't done in a long time. I always made sure my husband and kids were taken care of and didn't worry about me... I have learned through all of this I have to take care of myself and not out everyone else's needs above mine... And I have forgiven him and I know it will be a long time before I can trust him again... But he is proving to me every day he is willing to fight,for us... He treats me better than he did when he was having the affair... He gave me access to all of his accounts so there's no more secrets...
@zhillscple that is a start keep him to it you may never fully trust again which is ok because that small lack of trust may keep him that much more honest idk just a thought