Why are people so insensitive? I basically got told that both my rape and miscarriage was my fault.. Because I'm 16. I understand that I shouldn't have been drinking that night. I fell for peer pressure. And it was too much and I passed out and got raped. I understand that I am 16 and I wasn't ready for a kid.. But that doesn't mean I never loved that baby. That was still a part of me. I was ready to change my ways. And I still am. I cant just move on from it like it never happened. Cause it did..
First of all neither of which are your fault. I don't care if you are running around naked and drunk. Rape is not your fault. Secondly. Unless you did actives to damaged the baby it is also not your fault. Don't listen to others. They take the easy way out and blame anyone
@Arcgburton You are absolutely correct! How can you blame a 16 year old girl for this/ Whoever raped her is the person to blame for taking advantage of a young naive girl.
That is part of the life style.. when we drink and drug...so choose carefully...16is to young.. sorry this happened to you ...you are also disrespecting the law make you more easy stay away from felon life under age drinking. Against laws at ,16 do you drop out of school and support the little one? Or put that responsibilities on someone else? Move toward get a financial goal.but if you have Juvenal record that will hamper you.that is real peer pressure that would keep you flipping hamburgers.... Stay in school straight
It's never your fault; doesn't matter whether you're drunk, sober, dressed in a big coat or dressed in short shorts. No one asks or deserves rape. Whoever tells you these things and says it's your fault are narrow minded people who, quite frankly, do not deserve your time and strength
Honey it's not ur fault! Don't listen to them, they just like to feed of people who are hurt. You are a strong, beautiful, young lady and don't let anything tear you down!!!
Who is saying that this is your fault? Remove negative people from your life. You need all the support you can get. Surround yourself with supportive people.
Rape is never ever ever the victims fault. Society teaches girls not to get raped instead of teaching guys not to rape. I don't care if you're drunk, if you're high, if you're naked. No guy has the right to EVER rape a girl.
I get those comments on a daily basis. The fact of it is that people who say that are obviously stupid and are lacking something in their life if they feel the need to disrespect someone that way. It is never a girls fault that a man takes advantage of her. Don't let anyone pull you down because they're ignorant. You were raped and came through it, and that proves your stronger than they'll ever be:) They only win if you let them!!!