I feel- I want to scream I am not disposable! But, like a tree in the woods falling would anyone hear ? My kids say get over it, move on, other fish in the sea, I worked hard for many years still you don't just make a cake put it in the oven and walk away. Or maybe you do...
Morning Wilted kitty, YOU ARE NOT DISPOSABLE!!! I know how you feel. My exhusband left me after 20yrs together. That was 2yrs ago and I still feel the pain and anger everyday. Some days are better than others. I am trying to get pass it but, I am still going through it with him in the courts. So its a constant reminder like it happened yesturday.
Its OK to scream and feel... just try to not let it consume you. It will get better little by little promise.
Thank you, and yes I know that But until the pain is gone...Here I am...And I am grateful because I am trying to move through it all. I am not garbage n yea,the kids now drive their own boats. I didn't want to do that I want to watch and enjoy. Life shouldn't be anger ,quios and disappointment. Life is a good thing I just have to find out where...And for anone in my boat get that ore start pushing forward.
This world is full of disposable items and many men think their wives fit in this category. In a world that is now going green we need to adapt that new theory. Our ex sees us as useless and not worth any thing but in a world of recycling we go from disposable to valuable. In our old form we seemed useless but after the transition we come out stronger, more beautiful and have a much higher worth.
Go green and stay strong. Our self worth does not depend on the love of a person who doesn't really loves us as much as they love themselves.
Wilted, I love the ore thing thats the best way I've heard it yet, that says something about you.
Puddie, I agree, a good ole scream & cry is alright & a good way to release pent up frustration.
Mary, I was wondering how your doing & It would be wonderful if all of us got together for Labor Day & surrounded ourselves with what w/us women have to offer eachother w/friendship & just support one another.
April
I was having a rough couple of days and have been out of touch with you. Today I am better and who knows what tomorrow will bring. I will try to hold on to the good for as long as I can because some where out there I know is a trigger that will set me back again.
Labor day is a little tough for me because this use to be a family day. Now kids are bigger and my husband flew the coop. I need to find a way to redefine this holiday and give it a new happy meaning.
I will stay in touch on this day and wish all of you the best also.
Thanks for checking on me.
Mary