So basically i found out everything I needed to know. I know that he would never hurt his daughter and his baby mama has alot of problems regardless I sent him to counsiling so he can talk to someone about whats shes putting him through. Things are ok and this ***** is nuts... It happens apparently she is mad that he wont go back to her and since he wont she wants to ruin his life. He was mad about the accusation sayin he was pissed that if she even thought someone had touched his daughter she should have taking her to a doctor and a counsilor which she didnt... wouldnt any parent want to get there child help if something like this was true shes showing her true colors and putting her daughter through alot of unecessary pain
Be honest, but careful with your words.
Tell him she called you and she accused him of molesting his daughter.
Does she have evidence? Is she spiteful? And why is she calling you to begin with?
She just may be acting out in anger and stupidity which is horrible, because she is going to put that child through so much in the meantime.
If she does take him and he is found not guilty, he should be able to counter sue for defamation of character, mental pain and anguish and probably get full custody of his daughter.
A mother fabricating such a story for revenge is definately an unfit mother and has proven it by risking the mental health of her own child for personal gain.
And if he did do it I hope he burns in hell.
she is spiteful, she was calling to speak to him but he was not home.im just so lost i really dont belive it
Then there is your answer.
Just be the bigger person.
Keep me posted, but definately tell him what she said if you haven’t already.
Remember -
Karma is a bigger b!tch than we could ever be. (wink)
Would be wise to stay out of the situation as much as possible & find out answers about HIM another way via internet searching/google searching & not from him as he may just tell you what you want hear, alot of people do that. How long have you known the man you've been with, if you dont mind me asking? His ex may be trying to warn you & may not be as difficult as it seems/appears, shes an EX for a reason & its difficult to say unless you know her. If his child is acting out in some form then there may be a sign somethings amiss & someone would need to step in & assist the child immediately. Has the mother sought advice or help yet for her suspicions or is she throwing up a smoke screen for something else.
This is a strong accusation & would have to be checked out quietly cause usually one IS NOT going to admit it openly.
All my strengths.
April