What do we do guys when ur your sons mother doesn't allow u more visitation time and u want to avoid court.. to do fears of raising child support
Try appealing to her sense of care and love for her son. He needs a father figure and the love of both parents. Tell her you will support her and her wishes with him and do so but ask in return if she doesn't think it's important he has a dad in his life as well. Finally, if you owe support you need to be paying that. Remember that is the right thing to do and that child and mother will respect you fir that. I know it's hard. It really is hard. It's the sacrifice we make fir our kids and the mistake we made with our kids mother.
Oh I pay my child support but she doesn't let me see him more outside the visitation days
Try playing the "what's best fir the child" angle. I guess by rights she doesn't have to let you have more than what's ordered by court and if the child stayed with you more nights than half she would potentially get less support with you as head of household. Maybe she isn't thinking that deep but she may be. Time to have a talk with her and see if she is willing to let you spend time with him while she is there or for special occasions at least. Pretty cool to hear another dad that wants to be with his kid. You don't see a lot of that any more.