What do you do?

What are you supposed to do if you still love your ex husband? Our divorce has been final for almost a year. But I am finding myself still loving him. He has moved on with someone else. I dont see him I refuse to let myself ever see him or even talk to him. But I still love him and I want to stop feeling like this. He is always on my mind.

The reason may be that you have some unfinished business w/him that may need to be addressed w/an outside party or someone that you feel you can talk with. Do you do other things to keep yourself focused & block him from your thoughts? What is it that you think about in reference to him, if you dont mind me asking? & is it the "What Ifs"?

All my strengths.

April

I think alot of it is the what if's. My life wasn't that bad with him. We just had our problems like any marriage does. I try to find other things to keep my mind off of him but I swear it just does not help. It is hard at times cause we all work at the same place me and him and his girlfriend.

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